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Are We All Becoming the Kids on the Bench?

Are We All Becoming the Kids on the Bench?

by Paul Quinn | Jul 1, 2025 | Asking - Relationships, Human Behavior, Personal Development, Relationships

Can taking time to ask personal questions enrich our relationships—whether with friends, neighbors, family members, romantic partners, coworkers, or strangers in passing? That’s one of the questions I pose in my book, The Big Ask. But the bigger question, the...
I Hate to Trouble You

I Hate to Trouble You

by Paul Quinn | Nov 22, 2024 | Asking - Consumer, Asking - Empowerment, Handling Conflicts, Human Behavior

This is a post about asking that begins, for the sake of analogy, with a seemingly unrelated topic: Crosswalks (bear with me!). Imagine you’re walking in a crosswalk. At the halfway point, you see a driver waiting for you to cross so they can turn. Even though you...
Want It? Affirm It!

Want It? Affirm It!

by Paul Quinn | Oct 29, 2024 | Asking - Empowerment, Human Behavior, Personal Development

What if you could direct your imagination to “put on” a new perspective aligned with the reality you wish to create? This is the first of two posts about using affirmations and visualizations, respectively, in effective ways. In this one, we’ll focus on...
Is it Hard to Ask the One You Love?

Is it Hard to Ask the One You Love?

by Paul Quinn | Aug 8, 2023 | Asking - Relationships, Communication Skills, Human Behavior

From dating to mating and beyond, many people find it difficult to ask their partners for what they want. I asked Rachel Sussman, LCSW, to shed some light on this topic. She is a licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert, writer and lecturer. Rachel is the founder...

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