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How I Learned Not to Ask

How I Learned Not to Ask

by Paul Quinn | Jul 22, 2026 | Asking - Empowerment, Asking - Relationships, Personal Development

If a child is emotionally shamed or physically punished for asking for what they want or need, is it any wonder they’ll have trouble asking as adults? We like to think a difficult childhood is “in the past.” But without therapy—or a commitment to...
Trust, Ask, Persist: The Big Ask Journey of Sterling Lentz

Trust, Ask, Persist: The Big Ask Journey of Sterling Lentz

by Paul Quinn | Jun 19, 2026 | Asking - Business, Asking - Empowerment, Asking - Entrepreneurs, Asking - Opportunities, Asking - Professional Development, Asking - Relationships

What happens when we trust our intuition and, despite obstacles, keep pursuing what it calls us to do? In my conversation with entrepreneur Sterling Lentz we explore that question—and the one “big ask” that carried him 8,000 miles from home. Sterling is...
Are You Stuck in the Van?

Are You Stuck in the Van?

by Paul Quinn | May 21, 2026 | Asking - Business, Asking - Empowerment, Asking - Professional Development, Asking - Workplace, Personal Development

Arriving in Denver one spring day, I wheeled my suitcase to the cabstand. The fare to my hotel, I learned, would be $70, so I opted to save $30 and take a multi-passenger van instead, the kind that stops at each passenger’s hotel. A purely frugal decision,...
Making a Monster: The Big Ask Audiobook

Making a Monster: The Big Ask Audiobook

by Paul Quinn | Apr 9, 2026 | Asking - Business, Asking - Empowerment, Communication Skills, Presentation Skills

There are reasonable creative projects … and then there are the ones that grow ten times their size and cause their cowering creators to ask, “What have we wrought?!” The Big Ask audiobook began with the innocent question: “Hey – what if...
“Can I Ask You Something?”: The Risky Power of Personal Questions

“Can I Ask You Something?”: The Risky Power of Personal Questions

by Paul Quinn | Jan 10, 2026 | Asking - Relationships, Communication Skills, Relationships

When could asking personal questions come across as nosy and intrusive … and when could it take conversations into richer territory? Nobody wants to ask questions that could upset or offend a conversational partner. But because we don’t always know what...
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